In his book, Man's Search for Meaning,
Victor Frankl says: "...everything can
be taken from a man but one thing: the
last of the human freedoms -- to choose
one's attitude in any given set of
circumstances, to choose one's own way."
Since the event of 9/11, this belief has
not been any more evident as it has been
in the aftermath of hurricane Katrinna,
and now, Rita.
The mere devastation of human life
and human resources in the wake of these
two hurricanes is unfathamable to most
people. The global call to action has
been extraordinary and shows the heart
of humankind, "when one of us hurts, we
all hurt." I have been profoundly struck
by the outpouring of love, support, and
unbelievable response to the people in
Louisiana and Mississippi from people
across the world.
The events have caused many, if not
most of us, to pause and reflect on our
own mortality and the choices we make
each day. Questions surrounding how we
view life, our spirituality, our
relationships, our jobs, our future seem
to pale against the backdrop of the
lives severly affected by Katrinna and
Rita. Yet we cannot ignore the lessons
we are learning each day by the
resiliency of so many people who are
bravely overcoming the challenges they
are facing as they rebuild their lives.
It is the very thing Frankl is speaking
about - it is our human freedom to
choose our attitude in any given set of
circumstances.
As each of us sets our goals into the
future, we might do well to reflect on
our own sense of resiliency and find
within ourselves the freedom to choose
our attitude toward life's challenges
rather than react to them. It might be a
time for us to take pause and consider
the choices we are making in our
individual and collective lives within
our families, our work place, and our
community. We might ask ourselves: Am I
constantly complaining about things that
are inconsequential? Do I find solace
and value in what I have that I might
enjoy the abundance in my life? Do I
live my life with purpose and intention?
Or do I go through life reacting? Do I
value my family members, friends, and
associates? Or do I criticize them for
their ideosyncrasies? Do I take
responsibility for my personal choices
and accept the consequences of those
choices?
Stated in my opening remarks, I write
the Fall is a time of letting go, a time
for reflection and contemplation, and
preparation for new beginnings, new
growth, and new experiences. For me, it
is also about choices; it is about
renewal; it is about resiliency of the
human spirit to find solace in the
abundance given to each of us even in
the face of tragedy.